"Let it go"

爱情是一种旋律，
一首歌里的某种旋律，
总能把你的心抓得紧紧的。

Let it go, let it go,
I am one with the wind and sky,
Let it go, let it go,
You’ll never see me cry.

I don’t care,
What they’re going to say,
Let the storm rage on,
The cold never bothered me anyway.

学会了，不哭了，
公主总有一天会长大，
学会坚持做对的事情，
学会不再受容易被人影响，
学会做自己的女王，
学会做国王身边的女王.

I’m never going back,
The past is in the past.

如果有幸被受恩赐，
我会许下这三个愿望，
1）自己得到知识，得到生活智慧。
2）找到一生最爱，不需要高富帅，但必须有上进心。
3）自己和另一半的父母长命百岁，享受着安稳的万年。

今天开始，就朝这愿望出发，
做好自己，为未来打好基础。

"Dear me,dear you"

I Would Like To Tell Me and my Future Love :

Go on as many adventures as possible.

I hope you’re going everywhere and doing everything. Hang out with your friends. Travel a lot. See as much of the world as possible. Try as many exotic foods as you can. Climb mountains. Join Fun Runs. Go diving and skydiving. Explore this beautiful world. I hope you’re starting to check off items on your bucket list because one day, when we’re finally together, I would like to hear all about it. 

One day you will share all those stories with me, and maybe we’ll try to do them together too.

Find yourself.

I hope you’re taking time to get to know yourself. Take time analyzing what you really want to do in life. Love yourself and be strong for yourself. Some people enjoy being needed but I what I like is to be wanted. You are your own person and I hope you know that you don’t need anyone to complete you. 

One day we will be there for each other not because we can’t live without each other but because life is much more colourful when we’re together.

Live your life.

I hope you’re taking risks. I hope you’re not hiding under the covers to make as few mistakes as possible. Go out and make good and bad decisions. Do not be afraid of pain or failures. They are there to make you appreciate the good things. I hope you’re as in love with life as I am. Enjoy the sweetness and bitterness of this roller coaster ride. 

Life is short and I don’t want you missing out on anything.

Take good care of yourself.

I hope you’re keeping yourself healthy and fit. Eat vegetables. Eat fruits. Hydrate. Get as much sleep as you can — more than you think you need. Exercise. Do all these for yourself and for me, and for our future kids. One day when we’re already both wrinkly, we will enjoy the senior citizen benefits together. We will play bingo and have weekly brunch with all of our children and their children. 

Take good care of yourself because I would like to grow old with you.

Pray for us.

I hope you’re praying with me every night before sleeping. I hope you’re praying for me as much as I am praying for you. Pray that we may meet. In the right place. In the right time. 

Because I’m hoping and praying for the same thing, too.

《爱回家·触不到的爱》

《爱回家473·触不到的爱》

小时候，曾经渴望长大后不做一个老师，医生，而是做一个天使，
因为童话故事中的天使都是美好的，
他们头顶有光环，
背后有一双大翅膀，
手握着魔术棒，法力无边，
当然人大了，
就知道凡人不可能是天使，

除非是“守护天使”。

曾经以为，要做个好女人，就应该学习，
学习女生们应该要有的态度，礼仪和处理手法，
应该这样做， 应该那样做；
却忘了，“应该”的背后总会有个“不过”。

# 我知道我应该做个不黏身的女朋友。。。
。。。不过我实在很想他。#

#我知道我应该做个温柔的小绵羊。。。
。。。不过我实在控制不了情绪。#

#我知道我应该宽容大方。。。
。。。不去计较那些芝麻绿豆的小事。#

有谁可以在说“不过”之前，
能设身处地地为另外一方想想他们的处境？
有思维的女生，就能！

有思维的女人，才是真正的独立的女人。

男生总爱用脑做事，“思维办事” ；
女生总爱用心做事，“感情用事” ；

我不算笨，不过总爱用心办事；
太过用心，就会冲动；
太过冲动，就会伤害；
结果，好意反而引来坏结果。

其实，只要我听一听，想一想，
可能不一样的自己就会出现？ 

只要肯付出，未必最好，

但不会是最差的。：:)