Thursday, February 27, 2014
"Laugh of the day"
Since people won't pay more for something that are easy to find,
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 5:58 AM
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
"Communication"
Woohoo! No more acting, just a video watching for today class.
This is one of my favourite class, Communication Skills, which I most probably need a lots.
When someone is angry, FEELING is FIRST.
Nobody will want to know how much you know,
Until you show them how much you care :)
6 steps of handling :
1) You looks angry!
Son't deny your/your client's feeling,Admit and accept it as abnormality.
2)Tell me about it..
Be open minded,Be an active listener.
3)I am sorry that it happens to you.
Don't feel afraid to apologise for something not your fault,Sometimes sorry can be a word of empathy and sympathy.
4) What would you like me to do? or What is your desire outcome?
You are the ONE I care.5)What I will suggest or do is ...
As a professional point of view.6)Thanks for sharing your feeling, feel free to come back to me if you need anything else.
Establish the relationship with patient after event.Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 12:42 AM
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Monday, February 24, 2014
"A Time of Love"
We will love each others, until death do us apart,
两个不同世界的人,在一起,是很难的事吗?
两个很一样的人,在一起,就一定会产生共鸣吗?
世上是无绝对的。
和这位朋友的观点很不一样,不过就是这不同点,让我们聊了整半天。
“两个人在一起,昨日种种,都必须昨日死,今天的我和舅母,都比昨天好,不是更应该比昨日更爱对方吗?”
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 6:53 AM
Thursday, February 20, 2014
“Karma"
Choose what you love,
Love what you choose :)
卖面先生因为一次的善行,
得了善报,也为自己的家人省下了不少麻烦 。
医生天天为病人们奔波劳碌,
所种下的慈善种子,想必一定都在无形里带给你正能量吧? :)
日行一善,心善则人美,
今天的你,把真·善·美带给身边的人了吗?
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 3:16 PM
Friday, February 14, 2014
"Valentine"
今天是个双情人节,
是2月14,也是元宵节 :)
这是个19年难得一见的情人节,
个个人都争先恐后地把和最爱的人的合照放上网。
我也来凑个热闹,
分享我和我一辈子情人的温馨时刻。
亲爱的妈妈,谢谢您的爱,
他是个很特别的人,有着特别的爱 :)
他告诉我,情人节是亲人节,
舅舅常会提醒,
每個人對你好,都不是義務的。要珍惜每一個對你好的人,
不要把它當成是理所應當,
因為誰都不欠你的,要學會感恩。
感恩我的生命里有您,有他,让我了解了爱的真谛 :)
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 10:05 AM
Thursday, February 13, 2014
“Baby"
小宝贝,
突然想念我了吗?
听到你一声的“大姑姑”,
突然觉得好幸福,好幸福 :)
这是姑姑写给你的第一封信,
等你长大认字了,
读起这些邮件,
你能听到姑姑想和你的对话。
从第一次知道你来到我们的世界,
公公婆婆,爸爸妈妈,姑姑叔叔就开始了幸福和忐忑的等待。
你很坚强,医生说你的心跳旋律异于常人,
你却用你的生命力,战胜了一切,
你呱呱坠地的的那第一个心跳声,成了世界上最悦耳的璇音。
你慢慢地长大着,姑姑的相册也越来越厚;
别人眼里,你是个爱耍酷的宝宝,
爱笑,却又不笑,
不过姑姑的相册里看到,
你需要有人疼,只要那么一点点的爱,
你笑得比谁都还要灿烂。
记得你婆婆还说:“姑姑的心,谁都偷不走,却被一个小山贼偷走了。”
哈哈哈。。。你这个可爱的小山贼!
姑姑在英国的日子里,
小姑姑常把你照片寄来。
就像小阳光一样,
你把我冷冰冰的世界,
照得暖暖和和的,
你还告诉我以后长大后,
你要来英国照顾我,
我还在等着呢 :)
如果哪一天,
你迷失了自己,
看看照片里的你,
你是最棒的宝宝,
是你自己战胜了病魔,
坚强地活了下来,
用回当时的勇气,
战胜自己的心魔,
你会有最美好的未来,
因为有我,有公公婆婆,有爸爸妈妈爱着你 ,
这种爱,一直还在延续着。
如果有一天,
你的爸爸妈妈迷失了自己,
宝贝,就请你当姑姑的小天使,告诉他们,
只有做了错事,才会受到责骂,
只有认真悔改,才会得到原谅,
三岁小孩学到的道理,
不要到了三十岁才忘记,
我们不讨厌做错事的你,
只要你做会黑白分明的你,
我们还是很爱很爱你。
你真的,做对了吗?
大家真的,都做错了吗?
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 3:12 PM
Tuesday, February 11, 2014
''Dependable''
Having someone to depend on makes your life EASIER
When a group of people work WELL TOGETHER,
There is an esprit de corps that develops.
All of us get to share in GOOD VIBES.
We know we have somebody is ON OUR TEAM
We know we have someone to COUNT ON,
We get the CONFIDENCE that comes from knowing that we don't have to do it all by yourself.
We have the tools we need to GET THROUGH THE ROUGH patch,
Or even create something NEW AND WONDERFUL in our life.
Being the dependable one ISN'T BORING,
But in fact over time it will make us MORE DESIRABLE.
People COMES,
People GOES,
People FLAKES,
Leaving us feeling LET DOWN,
Leaving us feeling LOSS OF POSITIVITY,
Leaving us feeling MORE DESIRABLE to find someone to depend on.
When you truly realize that you can DEPEND ON YOURSELF,
There isn’t a river you can’t cross or a problem you can’t think your way out of.
When we truly realize that we can DEPEND ON OURSELVES,
There will be NO PROBLEM that we can’t think our way out of.
Trying to do it alone in the world today is NOT IMPOSSIBLE,
It will just take us a LONG TIME.
When people know that they can DEPEND ON US,
We can win the heart of our TRUE LOVE, and
We climb the LADDER OF SUCCESS.
永恒定律
生中永恒的,恐怕只有两件事——‘‘税务和’死亡’
如果有永恒的美,
美容院也不会普遍满城;
如果有永恒的丑,
丑小鸭也不会长大成白天鹅;
如果有永恒的好,
正义的警察也不会贪污受贿赂;
如果有永恒的坏?
那人之初的性本善何去,何从;
问题也不会是永恒的,
只有开开心心地面对它们,
等到哪天我们坐下来分享经验时,
那种亲身的体验和回忆,
才是永恒的 :)
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 11:48 AM
Monday, February 3, 2014
"Chemistry"
亲爱的日记,
好久不见,我想念你了 :)
今年,
可不可以当我的幸福扑满,
请你把身边人给我的正能量,
永永恒恒地保存下来,好吗?
默契
说我特别聪明,我不;说我特别好看,我也不;
但是我的身边总是充满着最特别的人,
天天给着我不一样的喜悦。
天公惜笨小孩,你们相信吗?
Ahgirl, Peipei, Ginna
小熊医生
Alexandra
Don't Worry,
Be Happy,
This Year Gonna be a Good Good Year!
马妮马妮 Come!! :)))
Posted by Carmen Lee Jia Wern at 12:37 PM